Why Do They Lack Self Esteem And Confidence?

By Charles Thomas

Why do people become depressed and anxious? Why do they lack self esteem and confidence? The answer often lies in negativity. It begins with negative thinking and then people start to believe that they are stuck and that their situation is hopeless.

You might need to go to the doctor so you can get some medication prescribed for you. That will jump start your recovery, but it won't provide the long-lasting answers you need.

For the solution to your problems, you maybe surprised to know, lies not in your doctor's prescription but in your way of thinking and overall mindset.

While it's natural for people to try to find someone else to blame when they encounter difficulty, the truth is that we are often the ones responsible for the things that go wrong. Therefore, we should begin by looking at ourselves and at how we choose to live our lives. We need to determine what's wrong with our way of thinking as well as to figure out how to change it.

Once we've done that, then the real work can begin. There are no instant fixes.

Nothing happens overnight for this isn't magic. You have to work on it day in and day out. Make a plan. Choose your routine that which is comfortable for you. But once chosen, it must be followed every day without deviations. Slowly but surely, you will start noticing changes in your attitude and in the way you see things. This change will then fuel your determination to succeed. You will start to see things that have been going well for you, but had been obscured by your earlier negativity.

Do keep in your mind that the improvement in your outlook will be gradual and directly proportional to the effort you put in and your commitment to it as well as your initial negativity.

Your progress will only motivate you to work even harder and soon the time will come when you will realize that you not only deserve success, but that you are also well on your way to achieving it. - 32543

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